Dependent personality disorder (DPD) is defined by a chronic pattern of submissive and excessive helpless behavior. People diagnosed with this disorder feel uncomfortable and reluctant to make their own decisions. There is a constant fear of separation from their caregivers as they are entirely reliant on them.
Interdependency is a crucial aspect of our survival in society. So, when does this dependency take the form of a personality disorder?
DSM-V classifies Dependent personality disorder as a Cluster C personality disorder which is often associated with anxiety and fearful presentation. The diagnostic criteria for the disorder is the individual’s inability to match the age-appropriate level of autonomy. The onset of this disorder typically takes place in late adolescence and early adulthood. However, it may go unnoticed during adolescence as their autonomy is still regulated by parental authority. The occurrence of DPD is slightly higher in females than in males according to the American Psychiatric Association (2013).
Although, the common sentiment favors strict and authoritarian parenting and considers it to be the most effective. This parenting style presents itself as a risk factor in the development of Dependent personality disorder. It cripples teenager’s ability to take charge of their own lives by forcing them to abide by their parents’ decisions.
Symptoms
Individuals with DPD exhibit extremely clingy behavior and have a pervasive need to be taken care of. This behavior is expressed by the individual in the following ways.
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In the need of constant validation, advice, and input.
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Avoids disapproval and disagreement.
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Incapable of assuming responsibilities themselves and unrealistic expectations of care from others.
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Desperation to commit to another relationship as soon as the previous one ends.
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Feelings of extreme helplessness and vulnerability when left alone.
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Excessive drive to acquire support from others to the extent that they would allow others to take advantage of them instead of risking rejection.
Effects
As Dependent personality disorder hampers the individual’s ability to function independently, it impacts their performance in interpersonal, social, and academic settings as well. It was also found that these individuals are more tolerant towards abuse as they are vulnerable to rejection. They are subjected to frustration, anger, and pity by others. People with this disorder have a poor sense of boundaries and tend to be naive. This makes them prone to violence and exploitation.
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